Speak Of Marriage

Have you ever tried driving a screw into a block of wood? It's difficult. It requires strength and a steady, applied pressure. But it's also simple. Just keep turning to the right with that downward pressure, and soon enough, it'll go in. Marriage can be hard and difficult, but just like that screw with that driver, it is simple. All you need are the right tools, some applied effort, and continuity. In this book, Pastor Lemuel gives us the "tools" and the application to help us steady our marriages, make our efforts effective, so that we don't lose our "screws" in our marriage.

The object of this book is to help married couples or would-be married individuals discover their concepts of an effective marriage. The goal then is to help you as an individual reconsider (and possibly reconfigure) your mindset by examining, maybe even questioning, your native thoughts and concepts of spousal relationship and hopefully guide you to a more effective way of approaching marriage. I believe that by first knowing your personal mindset you can then intentionally, better yet, organically work on your marriage (whether present or future) as a couple.

From knowing if a person is ready to get married to learning the principles of a marriage that is intimately healthy, I hope this book will help in reshaping your ideas about marriage. The thoughts and concepts in this book are tools to help couples navigate the challenges inherently found when two people become one. I believe that as long as couples have the proper tools and the knowledge on how to use these tools, marriage can be quite fulfilling and happy